Orders of Love

Through observing the orders of love in the family we can see what opens the possibility for love to flow, and through this healing and connection where things have become entangled and disconnected. Sometimes love can be likened to life force, in that through observing orders of love we access greater life force and support from our parents and ancestral lineage. When children are unhealthily entangled in the lives and fates of their parents, they may find themselves responding with anger, resentment and disconnection as an attempt to get away from the sense of responsibility and burden they feel towards the parents. Underneath these emotions we often see the very deep love of a child towards their parents. There is a hidden loyalty and a wish to somehow make it easier, to make it better or to do it differently to what their parents did. And so the struggle with freedom and responsibility begins, which echoes throughout our love relationships in life.

Constellations Cards by Tanja Meyburgh

The Orders Of Love (Video 1 – The family system) with Ursula Maria Bell

The Orders Of Love (Video 2 – Belonging) with Ursula Maria Bell

The Orders Of Love (Video 3 – Precedence) with Ursula Maria Bell

The Orders Of Love (Video 4 – Fate & Responsibility) with Ursula Maria Bell

The Orders Of Love (Video 5 – Balance of Give and Take) with Ursula Maria Bell

The Orders Of Love (Video 6 – More than just a constellation) with Ursula Maria Bell

A lovely description of the orders of love by Maria Henriques.

Where life comes from with Leslie Nipps

The Healing Power of Respecting reality

Inevitable Belonging with Leslie Nipps

Soulful Mission with Leslie Nipps

True Partnership with Leslie Nipps

Restoration following wrongdoing with Leslie Nipps


Leading and Surrendering in Relationship: by Jonine Lee Gabay

The Orders of Love

Brief Introduction to Orders of Love, by Jane Peterson, PhD